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"She didn't just study healing. She built a movement around it."

 Dr. Toya Flowers is a licensed therapist, counseling professor, public speaker, and the founder of the Healing Exhortation Restoration Women's Conference — one of the only spaces where clinical expertise, academic research, and spirit-led transformation come together under one roof. 

Credentials

Licensed Professional Counselor

Professor of Counseling [Seattle University]

Professor of Counseling [Seattle University]

Professor of Counseling [Seattle University]

Professor of Counseling [Seattle University]

Professor of Counseling [Seattle University]

Counseling Researcher

Professor of Counseling [Seattle University]

Counseling Researcher

Keynote Speaker

Marriage, Couples, & Family Specialist

Counseling Researcher

Marriage, Couples, & Family Specialist

Marriage, Couples, & Family Specialist

Marriage, Couples, & Family Specialist

 

Conference Founder

Marriage, Couples, & Family Specialist

Marriage, Couples, & Family Specialist

For Dr. Flowers, the work has never fit neatly into one lane. In the therapy room, she walks with individuals through trauma, relational wounds, and the slow, sacred work of rebuilding. In the university classroom, she trains the next generation of counselors to show up with both skill and soul. On the stage, she speaks the kind of truth that moves rooms — the kind that doesn't just inform, but restores. 

"Like the Japanese art of Kintsugi — when something broken is put back together, it doesn't just heal. It becomes more rare. More valuable. More beautiful than before. That is what restoration does for a person." — Dr. Toya Flowers 

Kintsugi (金継ぎ) — the Japanese art of repairing broken pottery with gold. The breaking is part of wha

 Kintsugi (金継ぎ) — art of repairing broken pottery with 24 KT gold. The beauty of living with scars.

Her research in counseling informs everything she does publicly — which means when Dr. Flowers speaks, she isn't just sharing inspiration. She's translating years of clinical and academic work into language that lands in the body, not just the mind. That integration is rare. And it's what makes the experience of being in a room with her different from anything else in this space.


 Her clinical specialization in marriage, couples, and family therapy shapes how she understands healing at every level — because Dr. Flowers knows that restoration doesn't happen in isolation. It happens in relationship: with yourself, with the people you love, and with your purpose. That conviction is the heartbeat behind her couples retreats and online couples intensives — immersive experiences designed for partners who are ready to stop surviving their relationship and start loving better, together. 


The Healing Exhortation Restoration Women's Conference was born from that same conviction — that women deserve more than a motivational event. They deserve a clinically informed, spiritually grounded space designed to move them all the way from healing into wholeness. The response from the first conference made one thing clear: this is what women have been waiting for.


Dr. Flowers is available for keynote speaking, university and conference engagements, clinical consulting, and media appearances. Her work lives at the intersection of mental health, academic research, and healing ministry — and she brings all three into every room she enters.

The ecosystem: One mission. Six expressions.

Clinical Work

Counseling Research

Counseling Research

Therapy rooted in evidence-based practice and cultural competency — holding space for women and families doing the deep work of healing. 

Counseling Research

Counseling Research

Counseling Research

 Academic scholarship that keeps Dr. Flowers at the leading edge of the field and informs every public message she delivers. 

Public Speaking

Counseling Research

H.E.R. Conference

 Keynotes and workshops that bring clinical truth to the stage — for conferences, universities, churches, and corporations. 

H.E.R. Conference

Couples Retreats & Intensives

H.E.R. Conference

 The Healing Exhortation Restoration Women's Conference — where clinical expertise, exhortation, and restoration come together in one transformative experience. 

Couples Retreats & Intensives

Couples Retreats & Intensives

Couples Retreats & Intensives

 In-person retreats and online couples intensives for partners ready to grow — grounded in marriage and family therapy specialization. 

You Plant, We Water

Couples Retreats & Intensives

Couples Retreats & Intensives

You do the work. God does the growing. We just show up with good information.


Faith, mental health, and relationships — explored through a petty, professional, and prophetic lens. New episodes on Youtube. 

Areas of focus

Where would you like to go?
Women's healing & restorationCouples retreatsOnline couples intensiveTrauma-informed care Speaking & keynotes Counselor educationYou Plant, We Water podcast

Ready to experience restoration?

Whether you're an individual ready to heal or a couple ready to rebuild — there's a place for you here. 

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"Like the Japanese art of Kintsugi — when something broken is put back together, it doesn't just heal. It becomes more rare. More valuable. More beautiful than before. That is what restoration does for a person."


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